How neurodivergent people really learn music

Music lessons, in theory, should be a dream for a curious, creative kid. In practice, mine felt like an exam that never ended. Scales, sight-reading, stress. Not much room for instinct, and definitely no room to move.

I was learning cello — and like most classical training in the UK at the time, it came with a rigid rulebook. You played what was on the page, how it said to play it, and if your fingers didn’t behave, well, that was your fault. Or your effort. Or your “musicality.”

Looking back now — with a better grasp of neurodivergence, anxiety, and attention issues (all of which run in my family) — it’s painfully clear: the system wasn’t built for how my brain worked.

Today, there’s a much greater understanding of how different minds learn. We talk about ADHD and autism more openly. Some music teachers have adapted, new tools exist, and the conversation has moved on.

But for many of us, some damage has already been done. We were labelled difficult. Told we weren’t trying. Or quietly nudged away from music altogether.

Image source: Doyle, N. (2020). Neurodiversity at work. British Medical Bulletin, 135(1), 108–125. Licensed under CC BY 4.0.

The word gets thrown around a lot — usually in a quick list: ADHD, autism, dyslexia, anxiety. But what does it really mean when it comes to learning music?

There’s a definition I came across from a psychologist that stuck with me. Neurodivergence isn’t about being ‘normal’ or ‘not normal.’ It’s about the shape of your abilities. Some things come easily, others are much harder — and the gaps between them can be wide.

This is known as a spiky profile. Your brain doesn’t run flat — it peaks in some areas and dips in others.

So maybe you’ve got a killer ear but a short attention span. Maybe rhythm clicks instantly but written instructions feel like wading through wet concrete. That’s still intelligence — just not the kind most music systems are built around.

It’s not that you can’t learn. It’s that the method doesn’t match your mind.

And looking back, that explains a lot about how I learned music as a kid.

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According to recent studies, between 15% and 20% of people are neurodivergent, worldwide. That includes ADHD, autism, dyslexia, and related conditions — often undiagnosed. Over 15 million adults in the U.S. have a diagnosis of ADHD, according to the CDC, and the actual number is likely much higher.

Yet despite these numbers, most music education still caters to one type of brain.

It assumes you can sit still. Focus for long stretches. Follow written instructions. Read music fluently. Stay motivated by structure and repetition. And if any of that’s hard, the blame quietly shifts to you.

But for neurodivergent learners — including plenty of brilliant, instinctive musicians — those assumptions just don’t hold.

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It’s easy to assume that successful musicians were all model students. But the reality is much messier — and much more human.

• Grimes, the experimental pop artist, has spoken openly about her diagnoses of ADHD, autism, and likely dyslexia. In interviews, she’s said that earlier support could have saved her years of self-doubt.

• Gary Numan, the pioneering electronic musician, was diagnosed with Asperger’s later in life and credits it with shaping his unique musical voice.

• John Lennon, retrospectively believed to have had ADHD and dyslexia, famously couldn’t read music. He learned by ear, through repetition and experimentation — the way many neurodivergent people do best.

• Contemporary pianist Nat Bartsch creates minimalist, pattern-based music informed by her experiences with autism and ADHD. She’s one of several artists redefining how musical expression and neurodiversity intersect.

And they’re not the only ones. From Courtney Love to Doja Cat, Billie Eilish, and Ariana Grande, more artists are now talking about their diagnoses, and challenging the idea that musical success comes from doing things “the right way.”

None of these musicians would’ve thrived in a rigid, sight-reading-heavy classroom. And yet, they’ve shaped the sound of a generation.

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If traditional lessons don’t fit, what does?

There’s no single “right” way to learn music — and that’s kind of the point. Loads of adults return to music later in life, often after realising they’re neurodivergent and finally understanding why the old approach felt so wrong.

Here are a few ways in that actually work:

1. Ditch the rulebook (at least for now)

• You don’t need to read sheet music, memorise Italian terms, or practise scales for hours. Pick one song you love. Learn it by ear, follow a video, or use chord diagrams. Whatever helps you make sense of it.

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2. Chunk everything down

• Forget forcing through whole pieces. Chunking means breaking music into small, manageable bits — one riff, rhythm, or line at a time.

3. Use visual tools

• Coloured notes. Animated tutorials. Falling blocks. Anything that shows structure rather than expecting you to memorise it. These work because they show you what’s happening — they don’t just tell you.

4. Learn through patterns, not paper

• Many neurodivergent musicians respond better to shape and sound than dots on a page. Guitar chords, piano patterns, rhythm loops — these often feel more natural than translating notation.

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5. Improvise — seriously

• Messing around isn’t a waste of time. Improvising helps you connect with your instrument, explore your sound, and build confidence — all without needing to get it “right.”

6. Move while you play

• Some people focus better when they’re moving. Tap, sway, pace — whatever helps you stay grounded. There’s no rule that says you have to sit like a statue to be a musician.

7. Keep it short — and stop before you crash

• Focus often fades fast, especially with ADHD or anxiety. Try 10–15 minute bursts. Stop before you feel scrambled. You’ll build momentum without burnout.

8. Use tech that adapts to you

• Look for tools that give real-time feedback and adjust to your pace — not ones that expect perfect sight-reading or rigid structure. That’s exactly what Artie, our AI piano teacher, was designed for. He listens to how you play, spots what needs work, and gives instant spoken feedback — no guessing, no judgment.

9. Get feedback, not grades

• Traditional music lessons often feel like a test. But what you need is encouragement — someone (or something) that nudges you forward without making you feel like a failure.

10. Give yourself permission to just play

• You don’t need to prove anything. You don’t have to “catch up.” You’re allowed to learn in a way that works for your brain — and enjoy it, even if no one’s marking you out of ten.

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1. Can neurodivergent people really learn music effectively?

Absolutely — but not always through traditional methods. Research shows that neurodivergent learners often thrive with visual, tactile, and adaptive approaches to music, rather than rigid sight-reading and repetition. What’s needed is a method that fits the brain, not the other way round.

📚 Source: Doyle, N. (2020). Neurodiversity at work. British Medical Bulletin, 135(1), 108–125.

2. What are the most common barriers for neurodivergent learners in music?

Structure-heavy teaching, reliance on sheet music, and a lack of flexibility are major roadblocks. These approaches can clash with attention differences, processing styles, and anxiety — which often leads to frustration or giving up entirely.

💡 Neurodivergent learners are more likely to succeed with chunked learning, pattern-based instruction, and immediate feedback.

3. I have ADHD — is it even possible to stick with learning an instrument?

Yes, but it helps if the method is engaging, not repetitive. Short, varied sessions, real music from day one, and tools that respond in real time (rather than waiting for a teacher's next lesson) tend to work better for ADHD brains.

🎧 One study found that musical training improves attention regulation in ADHD learners — when it’s adapted to their pace and strengths.
(Zuk et al., 2014, Journal of Cognitive Neuroscience)

4. Do I need to read music to be musical?

No. Some of the greatest musicians — from Paul McCartney to John Lennon to Hans Zimmer — never mastered traditional notation. Neurodivergent learners often absorb music by ear, by pattern, or by feel. Reading is one tool, not the only one.

🧠 Many dyslexic learners struggle with standard notation but excel in memory, improvisation, and audio learning.

5. Are there specific tools that work better for neurodivergent music learners?

Yes. Visual apps, loop-based platforms, AI feedback tools, and courses that avoid pressure or perfectionism can all help. Think: coloured notes, real songs (not drills), video-based instruction, and AI teachers like Artie that adapt to how you play.

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6. I’m anxious about starting music again — where should I begin?

Start somewhere forgiving. Pick an instrument you’re drawn to, not one you “should” learn. Use tools that let you pause, rewind, and try again without pressure. And forget perfection — most musicians are just trying things out until something feels good.

🪴 Progress isn’t linear. Especially if you’re neurodivergent. But the right environment can make a huge difference.

About the author

Matt Ford is a musician, teacher, writer, and lifelong student of sound.

With years of experience in both performing and teaching, he shares practical advice through ArtMaster to help musicians at every level build skill and confidence in their playing.